I’m all for exploring a kink, but I also feel like this is a desire I should have been told about since the start of our relationship. I got pretty upset by this, not because I think there’s anything wrong with him desiring cross-dressing, but because he now wants to make it part of our sex life even though it’s a complete turnoff for me. He’s been buying women’s lingerie since before we knew each other and has worn my underwear multiple times. Later that night, however, he decided to tell me that he has a compulsion to wear women’s underwear, and it excites him sexually more than anything. Well, a few days ago, I caught him in another lie, and I told him we were either going to see a marriage counselor or I was leaving.
